Hey y’all,
In today’s vlog we are spending another weekend at the farm and contemplating getting blinds, planning out the front garden beds at Holiday House, and getting LIT UP by fire ants while working :(.
We’re also picking out a stain for our dining room table that PJ is refinishing, talking about our dream home that we might go look at (stay tuned!) and discussing my (Thomas) sudden huge fear of needles that is borderline debilitating. I can’t wait to read the comments about how much I whine 😂.
Hope you enjoy, and we will see you next week!!!
xoxoxo,
PJ & Thomas
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Thank you for sharing. If I ever had land I wanted to do a Rainbow Butterfly/Humming Bird garden. either using flowers and/or bushes.
I love watching PJ living his best life on the farm! Doing what he always loves! Working outside and being around all of the animals! And Thomas “inside” baking and writing! You guys always look so happy living your best lives with your fast growing kiddos!! Enjoy your week! Love you guys!!
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I know I keep saying this, but I LOVE getting the Sunday vlog! It “makes” my Sunday evening! Love watching the kids having fun; love hearing about your new projects; love watching your farm and Holiday House progress. Your music and videography is awesome! And thank you for being open to allowing your children to attend church activities with their biological aunt and family.
Hoping you all are safe after the devastation in Tennessee. Heartbreaking. ❤
honeycomb shades that fold up into nothing when not needed, thus preserving the view during the latter. Yet, they do the trick for sun and cold at night in the winter.
Graber blinds have a variety of choices and colors, our whole house is done in them.
You two are great parents and I love that your son, Allan is now big enough to help you around the farm! I can see how gorgeous holiday house is!. Wishing you much success in your farm, wish I can go there and see it but I'm halfway around the world,! I pray you are safe from that storm, but having said that. I am such a huge advocate for renewable energy, so do you plans to go solar? For bloodwork, I apply a (local) topical anesthetic ointment called EMLA, on the skin of the arm where they usually extract blood 30 minutes to an hour before the procedure and voila, no pain!
Put Vicks-Vapo_Rub on each bit ……… you will be surprised
did you buy the 12 foot table from the Amish?
Not the best idea to let your super-religious not "real" relative indoctrinate your step-kids into conservative Christianity, which is by definition staunchy anti-gay.
Phobias are just things we talk ourselves into. As an Aussie mine is spiders…. And we have some pretty big spiders here. The thing is, if no one is here and I have one in the house, I have to deal with it. Doesn’t make it any better, but I make myself do it. So I know how you must feel. Needles are fine, I love to watch them do it. It’s crazy how the mind works. You can do courses on different phobias, I’ve thought about it. But the thought of letting a spider walk on my hand makes me want to throw up lol…. All the best from Melbourne Australia.
How about building the porch put across the front connecting to the new steps and side walk. Then where the cars are parked put in grass with a conversation area in the front. Bring in flower beds and pots and hanging plants. Add a water feature or two to round out the peacefulness…
Thomas- wondering about your bag! It’s adorable ☺️
You talked about Helene. I'm in NW-NC. 1 county over west of me is where all the devastation begins. It was hell here but nothing like our mountain counties where nothing is left. I hope your area did well as Helene made her way to TN. Please share that anyone in an area with no infrastructure or cell service should put their phones on roaming. Service providers have been made to do this so people can get signals from any tower or possible satellite.
😳🙀😳OMG I Love watching your video's and your homes are so beautiful 🥰 Lol OMG PJ please be careful Lol 😂🤣😂 them bites looked so bad but I'm so glad you are okay … 😳🙀😳OMG Thomas I'm so very sorry about the needles but you should ask for the butterfly needles that don't hurt and close your eyes or think of something that upset you to distract your mind or listen to something with a headset… My fear of needles don't bother me but only when the person doesn't know what they are doing and moving the needle in my arm to try and find a vein but after my Ex fiance passed me his Hiv and I'm fighting to live in the hospital for three weeks… And having so many needles in my arms because of so many tests that I learn to block out the pain I'm feeling and block out the person helping me and only watch what they are doing but Thomas I pray and hope everything gets better for you with the needles….. And PJ again please be careful Lol 😂🤣😂
I really love you guys,im gay but I still practise my faith,i still believe god as my personal savior,eventhough I'm not going to church anymore, but deep in my heart I still need my God! only god know and judge me not anyone else.
Hi guys I hope you all been safe with hearing. About the hurricane you been having there in the states so IHOPE you and all your families are safe anyway keep safe xxxxxxx
Hope the summer house is ok with the hurricanes going on out there
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Who is the bottom/
What happened to your blueberry and cherry blossom tree?
Love the shaved look❤❤
you got us confused afer the vino , loved it won't buy , but then said you might but won't . what ?? heheh love your family from Copenhagen 💌
always dieing to know where Thomas got his bag from!
Sweetie you can get temporary accordion paper shades from Lowes or Home Depot
Just one man's opinion here: are you two INSANE? Letting your children, who are legally yours and no one else's, be near a place of religion? Leaving them vulnerable to becoming indoctrinated into a faith that WILL seek to turn them against you?
Come on, gentlemen. You're both smarter than this. 😟
Oh You Guys ! Enjoy!!
Thomas found the fountain of youth ❤
Use a super light ceramic window tint on the windows! It will block 99% UV and 80% of heat. Will also help from sun bleaching on floor and furniture!
You’re very fortunate to have the farm! As for the A/C… tinted windows as mentioned, shades/blinds as you’ve pondered, pergola as mentioned. However, the thermostat will cool to the temperature of the space it’s in, which is the hallway and not the main living space. Perhaps simply relocating the thermostat will give better results?
Bloodwork … I don’t like needles, though I don’t get fearful as you described … You didn’t mention if you drink plenty of water beforehand. Drink PLENTY of water beforehand! It helps the phlebotomist find a vein which should help move the process along a little bit faster.
RE: GROWING FEAR OF NEEDLES – Me Too! I Think Mine Started With A Very Long Hospital Stay And Being Poked EVERY MORNING at 5am I Just Got Sick of It. Now When I Get Blood Drawn It Drives Me Nuts!
Sounds like a vasovagal response to the needles! Happens to me if the nerve is struck when I get blood drawn!
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Dude I still get it on the needles and the heights. I have learned to tolerate the needles but the heights only gets worse and it sucks
Yikes! Church! Oh no!
I am really very hopeful that in life I will get a very good man as my life partner . Everyone will pray for me from the heart . Wish you all a lot of happiness in life . ❤❤❤
I hope y’all are buying that house!!❤
Hey guys what about putting a drive on the side of the house so you can load and unload through the kitchen door ??
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