Full-time & In-Person Position: https://forms.gle/euvvbYHE5WN5tqQb6
Full Show Notes: http://rottenmangopodcast.com
WHERE ELSE CAN YOU LISTEN/WATCH THIS EPISODE?
Spotify Video 🥭 https://open.spotify.com/show/5jZ9hN1UHkjyTmfOjbdPQb?si=7415e45850964f3d
Apple Podcasts🥭 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rotten-mango/id1517954480
(OR wherever you listen to your podcasts!)
#rottenmango #podcast
Bada bing badao Madame de makes money off of love I mean technically speaking marriages are known to be one of the most expensive promises that you can make even just the wedding itself you have so many people that can potentially make a profit you’ve got wedding dress designers florist venue owners but if
Madame de is invited to your wedding you can expect to pay her $100,000 USD who’s Madden de she is is one of the best matchmakers in South Korea and you really can’t put a price on Love Can you matchmaking Services aren’t as common here in the US like we
Have dating apps but you don’t necessarily have a company that you go to and you sit down and you say hey I’m trying to get married this is the person I want but in South Korea it’s a pretty normal thing there’s a whole system built around it even matchmaking
Companies have their own Niche some focus on the Mass Middle Market some Focus only on the upper class some only only ever take on the upper Elites of society a lot of parents will bring in pictures of their children and just beg the matchmakers to find someone suitable
For them to marry if they take on a new client matchmakers will run extensive background checks family background checks so not only do you have to have a clean background but every single person in your family has to have a clean background it matters not only what university you graduated from but it
Also matters where your great grandpa graduated from family P agree is everything in this business once they run that preliminary background check status verification everyone gets matched into their respective tier within the matchmaking company so generally just across the board for all genders family background family netw worth education levels these three are
Going to be the biggest things that the matchmakers take into consideration that’s going to be the basis of their ranking their tier system then there are other things are your parents still married are they divorced do you own property do you own a car what ZIP code
Do you live in for guys they’re judged more based on earning potential for women they’re judged a bit less on earning potential and a bit more on figure and appearance and side note this is kind of crazy but some matchmaking companies in kungum so the Beverly Hills
Of South Korea they will even partner with plastic surgery clinics they will recommend to clients to get specific surgeries done in order to appeal to the opposite gender they’re like you want a husband in your same tier or maybe the tier above you you’re going to need to work
On this wow if you go to the top matchmaking companies in kungum at the very very very top tier you’re going to find conglomerate kids these are the tibar kids top level Elites their parents net worths are likely in the hundreds of millions if not even closer
To the billion dollar Mark even if you join that same matchmaking company that has tar kids at the top chances are you’re never going to meet with them this is like the sacred group the UN attaina bles so those people use matchmaking too some do oh I guess it’s
Hard to find love nowadays I guess only it’s like 20 companies that they’re like swapping between so I don’t know why they would need matchmakers this I mean few and far between with the rank right below it this is top tier status this is the academic line you’ve got judges attorneys prosecutors interestingly
Enough in Korea they’re ranked higher than doctors judges law law then the third rank consists of doctor surgeons psychiatrist maybe a dentist here or there there’s even a joke that the best kind of son-in-law for anybody is a job title that ends with P judge doctor lawyer prosecutor s are the most coveted
Positions for Grooms then you have her last name to I know Stephanie sa and then you have rank four professors are those with positions high up in administration at the IVs of South Korea it’s like very specific these are very specific jobs I mean I feel like in America we wouldn’t have
This ranking system and if we did they would not be rank four yeah yeah yeah I like how like they are so precise like it’s like you know exactly where you fall in society not even about what are you contributing like what’s your passion like it’s just like you got this
Job you are right here and it’s a lot of the jobs are based on Prestige not even earning level because you’ll see that entrepreneurs and business owners rank probably lower but most of them might make more money than let’s say someone who works in admin at an Ivy League
School so fascinating yeah it’s interesting then you have rank five diplomats government employees but they must be engaged in foreign affairs just regular government government employees don’t matter Foreign Affairs yeah rank six now these are the technical jobs I feel like these are the jobs that we kind of covered in the
Western World coders Consultants investment bankers then you start heading into what they consider the general population the rank below that would be just across the board anyone who graduated from a university abroad now it’s very very interesting but it’s highly sought after in South Korea because it typically indicates two
Things when you study abroad you’re not allowed to work at the same time so that means your family has enough money to not only send you abroad to a private school pay outof country tuition fees which are insane and support your lifestyle while you’re in a foreign
Country that’s a lot of money and then the second thing is you probably know a second or potentially even a third language then you have the regular office workers but they must work for one of the big companies in Korea Samsung Hyundai SK it’s like anyone here
Working for meta Apple Google like it’s the trifecta right then lastly the very last year you’ve got entrepreneurs teachers government employees that get pension but don’t really they’re not entrepreneurs at the bottom of the no freaking way business owners are at the bottom oh my God that’s so weird most
Matchmaking companies in kungum won’t even take anyone below and I say quote below this tier wait what’s on in that tier again entrepreneur entrepreneurs government employees and teachers wow that’s crazy one of the more exclusive ones in kangam called best class they said you know we try to
Be honest in our approach to matchmaking if the ability to hunt animals was what made you sought after Bachelor in the stone ages it’s economic capabilities that give you the Competitive Edge today this agency in particular does not really take men under this status level some matchmakers won’t even take you
Unless you have the three keys a key to a house a key to a car and a key to an office some matchmakers make it five add another vacation home and a second car to the list yeah most match making Services won’t even take foreigners because they said it is impossible to
Verify the family pedigree and asset ownership if they’re not from Korea they need to verify everything this is the foundation of their business making sure that nobody gets lied to so once you’re placed an a tier within the company now now you finally get to tell the matchmakers what you’re looking for
In a partner personality looks Hobbies side note an interesting thing is Matchmaker said a lot of us have degrees in Psychology because you need to be very quick on your feet and understand social cues because men will sit there and ramble about how they want their
Wife to be ABC and d and it all just equals to Young and hot women will ramble and it all just equals to wealthy earning potential so you got to decode it very quickly so they said that they’ll look at all the other clients within the same tier as you to figure
Out who’s the best fit and a Matchmaker from Korea said you know a lot of people think that joining a matchmaking service is the easiest way to marry rich but it almost never happens you almost always get introduced to someone within your tier so they’re saying you you you join
This business so you can one day marry a rich man but likely they’re just marrying within their class yeah it’s a little bit easier for women to have upward mobility in marriage but it’s very dependent on looks then and it’s a very superficial and I don’t think most
Women want that and interestingly enough more men are registered in these Services than women in matchmaking in matchmaking so it’s said that a lot of wealthy men actually think it’s a lot cheaper more economical in the end to just go straight to a Matchmaker and pay them $100,000 when
They’re ready to get married so they’ve messed around they’ve done all that they wanted to do and now it’s time to get serious another thing that might play into this and I’m giving you guys so much cultural background on this one I’m so sorry right and this doesn’t apply to
Every single person in South Korea you know we should never generalize but in Korea typically the business world does value figureheads and I’m sure it’s the same in America when we have presidential races look at how much they thrust their partner into the spotlight a lot of Korean businessmen it’s
Advantageous for them to have stable marriages that the public can look upon and say see he’s not evil he’s a family man so they’re like okay now I need to get serious because it’ll benefit my career and everything else I need to find a wife ASAP why waste time trying
To naturally bump into someone go on a bajillion dates that’s going to cost me money only to find find out our values don’t add up they’re not ready to get married they lied to me it doesn’t make sense so this is just honestly the cheaper way also this seems to be a
Thing in wealthier communities but marriage is about love yes okay but it is also about two families being united through a relationship not just between two spouses it’s about two families coming together and how both sides can stand to benefit and solidify their social status through marriage one
Matchmaker said it’s not enough for two people to fall in in love with each other it’s possible to meet people who match your style and preference but meeting expectations is something else what kind of house you’re going to live in after marriage how much income is expected or all realistic details that
Need to be met before the match and this is a bit unhinged but at one point it was not uncommon for parents to come on the dates with their kids yeah so the fee obviously varies but for the elites of society they’re looking at around anywhere between $100,000 and
Upwards if the matchmaking gets all the way to the altar Mrs Moon did not mind the Fe at all honestly she welcomed it she went out there and she looked for the best Matchmaker in the town and Mrs Moon’s husband was the founder and owner of a flower factory this flower factory
Had now turned into a big Distribution Company for flour and bread like gluten and Co they also owned some small hotels and clubs on the side the moons they’re as new money as new money gets she could throw cash around like it was nothing but her daughter her daughter marrying
Someone with a bit more Prestige it would be the perfect way to solidify their status not as new money but as a a force to be reckoned with as a classy family you know she wanted a sa groom for her daughter remember judge lawyer doctor prosecutor now Madame du told her
She had the perfect person in mind okay like a list of people she whipped out a long list of soon to be judges that were clients of hers and told her it’s your pick I mean I can’t tell you that these men will want to marry your daughter but
Hey we can set them up on some dates Mrs moon was instantly intrigued by 27-year-old by the name of Kim hun we’re just going to call him hun soon to be judge never married no children he was perfect for her daughter and I guess everyone agreed because they were going
To get married and the fees were very straightforward $222,000 from each side the groom will pay the matchmaking company the bride will pay the matchmaking company2 2K so total of $44,000 now in South Korea there’s something called bride money this is very very traditional in Korea some wealthier families participate in this
Tradition where the bride’s family will give the groom’s family straight up cash for someone at the Moon family level it would be a little over half a million dollar what so 10% of that would be around $55,000 plus the $44,000 that’s almost $100,000 that
Madam de is about to make m so 10% of the bride’s money goes to the matchmaking yes wow Mrs Moon had no problem paying she practically skipped to Madam de with a stack of cash she got exactly what she wanted and she was fine paying market value for it but hen the
Soon to be judge after he marries the moon daughter he’s thinking I know the law better than any of these people do and technically legally speaking I don’t have to pay Madam de $22,000 yeah I never entered in in a contractual business with her so I
Should be fine what’s done is done we’re already married what is she going to do Force us to get a divorce she can’t do that this guy had no idea what Madam de was capable of she would do absolutely everything in her power to ruin this marriage there will be a string of
Anonymous phone calls a torture room where people are hung by their limbs so they develop heart problems accusations of incest cheating stalking private investigators a milkman that gets hypnotized and it all ends with a family member dead and another in jail for murder Wow we would like to thank today’s sponsors who have made a made it possible for rotten mango to support the national network to end domestic violence they’re a nonprofit dedicated to creating social political and economic environments in which partner related workplace and stalking violence no longer exist this episode’s
Partnerships have also made it possible to support rotten Mango’s growing team of dedicated researchers translators while they can focus on shedding light from stories from all over the world we would also like to thank you guys for your continued support as we work on our mission to be worthy advocates for these
Causes and by the way speaking of we are working on growing our RM team and are currently hiring for full-time in-person researchers who are already based in Atlanta or must be willing to relocate to Atlanta Georgia if you guys are interested you can apply through the
Google form that’s going to be linked in the description as always full show notes are available at R mingle podcast.com this is a Korean case we had our wonderful Korean researchers and translators who worked really hard to get all the data for this case they did give me a very ominous warning though
That there are parties involved that are wealthy well connected and very lawsuit happy an attorney associated with this case has already been sued and the only reason that he did not face major repercussions was because he changed some of the names associated with the case which you know that’s what we’re
Going to do it’s a little bit different in South Korea because you technically can sue someone even if they’re telling the truth but just as a precaution to keep us and our researchers safe we will also be changing some of the names and with that being said with all foreign
Cases or really any case if there’s anything lost in communication translation or something we didn’t cover let us know in the comments so that we can see it and with that being said let’s get started she just had a gut feeling that he was cheating I mean she
Could sense it this was even before she got all those Anonymous phone calls the phone calls that were saying things along the lines of you know he wasn’t really at a business meeting who’s this why do you think that he’s been working out more I’m sorry is this a prank don’t
Tell me he told you that he was working late again she just kept getting these Anonymous phone calls back to back to back and at first she thought it was a weird prank but the more that she was looking at him the more that she could
See it he was a lying little cheater she starts doing some questionable things at first it was a bit more innocent she would try to look over his shoulder anytime he was looking on his phone she would try to call him at odd hours of
The day to ask him where he was what he’s doing trying to catch him in a lie but none of it is working it got to the point where she became almost obsessed with the idea of catching him cheating it’s almost like she wanted him to cheat
So that she wouldn’t feel like she was losing her mind she put a piece of thread just outside the front door handle so if he snuck out and came back in she would be able to tell that the thread would have fallen off but there was no way that she could
Bring that up as proof that he was cheating she would just sound like a crazy woman the piece of thread I put the piece of thread there and now it’s gone so then she started sprinkling a light layer of sand in front of the door
That way if he stepped out she would see his footprint in the sand wait she’s thinking the husband leaves in the middle middle of the night secretly snuck out yeah wow what but even if she could match up is shoe with the print it wasn’t evidence that he was cheating he
Could say that he’s getting fresh air so when that didn’t work she installed a secret camera outside their front door watched for all movements logged into his work email on her phone so that she could check in real time when he was working and responding to emails she
Even hired a worker at the courthouse to stock him once he became a judge but it still wasn’t the evidence that she was looking for she was getting nothing out of this so she starts upping the stakes she would dress up in these long pink rubber gloves colorful floral print
Flowy pants and a sweater paired with a visor a disguise her new identity was a woman working at the market selling fish what another favorite disguise of hers was a gray monk robe she would put on these unhinged disguises lurk around the corner hiding behind walls hiding
Her face behind a basket of raw fish just stalking the man she felt like eventually he would be caught one time she even flew out of the country to stalk him he was on vacation with a woman her daughter but Mrs Moon did not want her daughter to live out the same
Fate as she did she was certain her son-in-law was cheating on her daughter she was married to a Serial cheater just like Mrs moon was she knew what that life was like so the daughter’s mother is stalking the son-in-law the whole time imagine we’re happy we’re doing
Great and my mom is stalking you convinced you’re cheating on me right okay even stalking us on vacation showing up and hiding around in ajima clothes lurking around the corner and I have no clue I have no clue either okay wow we none of us have a clue what’s
Going on Mrs moon was married to a successful business owner and she caught him cheating in the ACT several times and yet there was nothing she could do about it she couldn’t leave him one time she was driving her car stopped at a red light looked to the side there’s Mr Moon
Happily smiling in the car with another woman she slammed her foot down rammed her car into his and even after all of this Mr Moon still chose to keep seeing his mistress even fathered a child with one of them Mrs Moon didn’t want her daughter to go through the same things
That she had experienced so she watched her son-in-law like a hawk during one family gathering he stepped aside to take a phone call and he’s speaking softly into the phone I mean he wasn’t saying anything crazy orual or anything like that it was just a very normal conversation and right after hanging up
He turns around and boom his mother-in-law is standing inches away from him who’s that oh uh my cousin your cousin yeah my cousin and there it was the evidence that Mrs Moon needed Not only was hun her son-in-law cheating on her precious daughter but the honorable Judge was
Sleeping with his own cousin H that was the conclusion she came to and it would end in murder people think being a private investigator is a thrilling glamorous job and more often than not if you go on like Reddit and you look at private investigator amas I’m so
Intrigued by it they say it’s pretty boring it’s pretty mundane most of your day is sitting in the car drinking coffee looking at a house and nothing is happening or just watching someone sitting in the parking lot for 8 hours while they’re in work and then having to
Follow them out you’re almost waiting for them to do something horrendous but they almost never do and this was probably one of the most boring jobs that these private investigators had taken on if the crazy lady did not pay so much they probably wouldn’t have even
Bothered to do this gig first of all why are they stalking a law student from the prestigious ivy league university aha women’s college second of all all the girl does is study sleep study sleep studying is boring stalking someone who only studies all day is mind-numbingly boring and not only that she’s so
Morally upstanding there’s nothing to even dig into they did background checks nothing they did everything they tried to talk to friends nothing most aspiring attorneys that make it to a school like this they want to join one of the top big law firms because there you can
Stand to make millions a year as long as you play your cards right or maybe you want to start your own Law Firm one day again a very lucrative business this girl she wanted to be a public defender the most unglamorous one of the least financially rewarding career paths one
Of the most emotionally mentally physically exhausting career paths for someone who spent the best years of their youth trying to pass the bar so in Korea it’s very difficult to become an attorney I don’t want to say it’s more difficult than the us because I don’t
Have exact figures but I don’t know if it’s the population pool I don’t know what it is but the bar exam to become an attorney is next level the competition is insane there are instances where in the entire nation only 55 people pass the bar exam jez and I mean these people
Are smart people it’s not like they’re less intelligent than Western counterparts they’re insane it takes on average 5 years for people to pass sometimes even 10 and you’re talking about people that could do some crazy stuff in their heads the person they’re stalking is going through all of this
Just to become a public defender because her core belief is that before the law everyone should be equal it doesn’t make sense to the private investigators why someone would pay so much money to have multiple private investigators stuck her of all people it’s not like she’s a public defender already working on a
Very controversial case mhm and all because of what a phone call the private investigators were like you know that’s weird cuz cousins talk all the time I mean it made sense why these two would talk even more because Chi the girl that they’re stalking she’s trying to pass
The bar hun the son-in-law he’s already passed the bar and is a judge why wouldn’t she call him non-stop to get advice yeah or just to talk about some of the stress she’s having that seemed very reasonable what kind of person hears two cousins talking on the phone having an innocent conversation and
Immediately jumps to the conclusion that they’re sleeping with each other and it’s clear Mrs moon really believed it she on top of what she was paying the investigators she bought $220,000 worth of spy gear as she called it gave it out to the pis to use binoculars spy cams
One of them said we had about four cars lying in weight 24 hours around the clock undercover binoculars hidden cameras all of it to stock a student that did nothing but go to the library imagine having four black sedans lined up just like they’re stalking the president or something just a college
Student one of them said I felt bad for the girl honestly the most exciting thing in her day was going to the bakery to buy some bread and then she would immediately go back to studying I never once saw her even take a sip of alcohol
Somewhere never saw her meet up with any guys it was honestly frustrating stalking her all we did was tail her from the library to her house to her school and that was it she didn’t even have fun F ever wow and the girl has no
Idea no idea wow the pis would be eating kimab in their car rice rolls rubbing their shoulders cuz they’re like sitting in that position 13 hours a day and their phone would ring and they said that it was Mrs Moon again and they would have to hold the phone 6 in away
From their ear because of how much Mrs Moon loved to scream she would scream things like are you sure they still haven’t met there’s no way are you sure you’re even doing your job well we’re absolutely positive we have like six eyeballs on this girl she has not left
The house all day and nobody has come to see her how do you know that she didn’t slip away while you were using the restroom did you use the restroom today then that’s a chance that she could have slept away she stopped letting them use the restroom while they were watching
Chi Mrs Moon had a group of Pi watching the cousin CH and another group watching her son-in-law hun but when she still hadn’t caught them in the act after months and months of this months of pouring in probably over six figures she hired another group their job was not to
Watch the cousin or to watch hun but to watch the original pis to make sure the pis were doing their job she hired private investigators to watch the private investigators to make sure that the original private investigators were doing their job and watching the subjects wow that is out of this world
She also hired police officers to help her stalk Hun’s cousin she made them access both of their phone records because the private investigators couldn’t do it but the police could she wanted phone records to see if they were secretly communicating somehow texting they kept all their phone records and it
Was all clean but she refused to believe it trust me I know how sneaky they are if you go to the basement floor of that girl’s dorm building I bet you there’s some sort of tunnel she’s literally thinks that there’s a tunnel this is not me like yeah she’s probably gone through
The tunnel to meet with my son-in-law because she’s a wh if the private investigators or the officers didn’t believe her she would just hire more people to quote figure out the truth over the span of 2 years she had 25 people stalking a college student she would try and motivate them
By saying things like $400,000 $400,000 that’s how much you’ll make if you can get me a picture of both of them sleeping together or at least a picture of them entering a hotel together see I don’t get it what is she trying to do no one knows because say she gets that
Photo is she going to force a divorce is she going to like what is she going to do there are a few speculation so the first speculation that came about was that she wanted the bridal money back now that she assumes that he’s cheating she spending $400,000 exactly that’s why most people
Don’t believe in that theory because she’s spending money like it’s water she has no value of money she doesn’t care for money like that yeah so I don’t think that’s it a lot of people think that it’s the psychology of a parent warning their child of something because
It happened to them so much and then they want it to happen to the kid almost so they could be like see mommy was right only mommy could have warned you okay it’s almost like you tell a kid don’t talk to strangers because strangers are creepy but maybe your kid
Doesn’t listen to you and your kid is like you’re just paranoid and crazy mom so it’s just a simple like I was Ry moment I Told You So moment it feels like she’s trying to confirm this idea that she has of men and marriage and the world and then also make her daughter
See that yeah cuz this is a behavior she’s not trying to keep the daughter and son together no but at the same time I don’t know if she wants them to divorce right yeah it’s just really bizarre yeah I she just wants someone to experience what she experienced is a big
Idea that people have cuz it’s not it’s not maternal whatever she’s doing is not in protection of her daughter mhm maybe her daughter didn’t believe her that her husband is cheating mhm but it’s just odd so the eyes they would roll their eyes and continue working and they said in hindsight this
Was a really bad joke to make but they would say things like look this lady is so crazy someone’s got to die for her to finally give up they had no idea that that would come true here’s a pro tip for whoever is crafting their holiday wish list yes
Include all of the fun stuff but also include things that you will actually use all year long and it’s not only going to make your life easier but will even help your business grow it sounds silly but I’m telling you it makes sense if you’re a business owner no matter how
Big no matter how small or you’re just getting started I always recommend adding stamps.com to your wish list this year we used stamps.com when we were running Grandpa mango studio and without stamps.com we would have spent so much of our time running around dropping things off to be shipped stamps.com is
Like your own personal post office wherever you are all you need is stamps.com a computer a printer and they’ll even send you a free scale so you have everything that you need to get started and when you need to share ship something out for your business you can schedule a package pickup through
Stamps.com through their mobile dashboard and if you sell products online stamps.com seamlessly connects with every major Marketplace and shopping cart I always thought going to the post office was one of the unavoidable parts of running a business but it is completely avoidable stamps.com has been doing this for 25
Years helping over a million businesses even if you’re running low on shipping and mailing supplies like labels even printers you can order them through stamps.com supply store but probably the best part for someone who has their own business are the prices stamps.com automatically tells you your cheapest
And fastest shipping options you can get huge carrier discounts up to 84% off USPS and UPS rates to help with your bottom line so it sounds silly but it makes so much sense give your business the gift of stamps.com so your mailing and shipping is covered this holiday
Season sign up with promo code rotten for a special offer that includes a 4-week trial plus free postage and a digital scale no long-term commitments or contracts just go to stamps.com Click the microphone at the top of the page and enter code rotten Chi and her family knew that
Something was wrong long before she disappeared G came home one day and told her parents I feel like there’s this creepy man watching me like stalking me she said that she kept looking over her shoulder walking back home from the library and he was constantly there so
She did something very smart she tried taking four left turns just to see if he was still there because what is four left turns it’s a circle and he was still there walking in a circle with her so she said she walked straight up to the guy and asked are you following me
He looked taking a back he didn’t respond he just kind of uh uh uh uh and then scurried off it’s so strange ever since that incident being the methodical person that Chi is she’s trying to be an attorney she starts jotting down notes of every single creepy person that even
Glances her way because she doesn’t know who this could be why they would watch her and then the phone call started it was almost always the same chia’s parents would pick up and someone on the other line would ask is chia studying at home who’s this why are you looking for
My daughter are you the one following her the line would go dead the creepy thing about this was they said at first the voice sounded like a man’s voice but the longer that they listened the more it sounded like a woman pretending to sound like a man to hide their identity
M even ch’s friends started getting these bizarre phone calls it was usually around midnight hi I was just wondering if um you have chia’s new phone number number uh who is this I I’m a close family friend of chz it’s just weird they never explained how they even got the friend’s number
And not chia’s number and why they were calling so late and if you’re a family friend call a family member of chia why are you calling me mhm when the friends weren’t Cooperative because of how creepy it was the person would get frustrated and hang up for the longest
Time the family would practically jump out of their skin every time their phone rang but this time it was their nephew hun so ‘s cousin the son-in-law the judge hey an um did you recently go on a trip to Japan with ch yeah how did you
Know we were just there for a short like a few days so we forgot to tell people about it I I don’t remember telling you or your parents yeah um look I just wanted to say that you should be careful I think my mother-in-law is watching you I think
She put a tail on you I think she suspects there’s something going on with me and tiia for whatever reason so the speculation is that no one in the knew that Chi and her mom had gone to Japan the Mother-in-law probably assumed everybody knew and let it slip the son-in-law was starting to
Suspect his mother-in-law and was like huh let me just confirm and once he confirmed it he’s like okay something weird is happening chia’s family they couldn’t even begin to comprehend what the hell this means like what do you mean you think your mother-in-law thinks there’s something going on between you
And your cousin like what a bizarre out of this world unhinged assumption to make yeah it’s so unhinged chia’s dad got involved and he told his nephew look this is your mother-in-law we have no idea why she would even think this way but you are the only one that can fix it
Just tell her straight up you’re not sleeping with your cousin and that is absurd and honestly you shouldn’t even need to be telling her something like this hun refuses and this becomes a huge point of contention why would he refuse to deny an alleged affair with his own
Cousin because he was the second to be sold by his parents that’s how people see it H’s older brother was a doctor and ha so another’s ha when he got married the bride’s family gifted them a big lump sum of cash and now it was Hun’s turn honestly this marriage was
More of a business transaction than anything there were negotiations with potential bride families about how much the bridal money would be and it seemed like the moons had the best offer $500,000 for his hand in marriage by a sunab be judge even chia’s dad didn’t agree with what h parents were doing but
He’s an adult and they can’t fight as battles for him right K was really good at studying but it seemed like he had no opinion no Direction no control over his own life one of his ex-girlfriends probably knew better than anybody else but they fell in love in college she
Gets introduced to Hun’s parents and they immediately reject the relationship they told him straight up we don’t like her break up with her and like a robot he broke up with her he just did whatever his parents wanted him to do so when they wanted to
Marry Mrs Moon’s daughter he just did as he was told he was going to marry her but he also wouldn’t be a present or loyal husband he would just be there on paper it seemed like he just didn’t really care if his mother-in-law thought he was cheating or not even if it was
With his cousin he’s like whatever there is a popular theory that hun was having an affair but not with his cousin because it said that he was caught on the phone with someone and at his in-law’s house remember but it wasn’t CH he was talking to M so now in order to
Conceal his potential Affair he’s just not even talking about Chia to his mother-in-law but if he is actually having enough here wouldn’t they found out already by all these private investigator see that’s also another thing that people are saying like why would he not say anything how would they
Not find out yeah but it’s just I think people are trying to understand why he wouldn’t say say anything yes but I’m a yeah I think there’s a level of what you’re saying but he probably don’t care like it doesn’t impact him as much impacts the cousin and I also and I
Think it’s such a weird conversation to be have that’s what I was about to say I wonder if maybe the Mother-in-law was accusing him of having an affair with another woman maybe he would have addressed it but if there is an Aima out there accusing you of sleeping with your
Cousin you almost like don’t even want to address it perhaps maybe she didn’t even accuse him she’s just doing all that in the back end and he just she’s not showing it and it’s a lot of discomfort to bring it out into the open even though everyone knows what’s going
On some people thought it was weird though that he did not confess to it so regardless H did nothing and Chi and her parents were frustrated and but I do think that they were honestly a bit relieved maybe they felt a bit more at ease knowing that it was just a crazy
Mother-in-law situation instead of I don’t know human traffickers Oregon traffickers right even just knowing who had set up the pi to watch her it seemed to bring the family a tiny inkling of okay this is is still very scary very odd but at least we know kind of what
We’re dealing with they were still very Vigilant though they got a restraining order against Mrs Moon their cousin’s mother-in-law and side note Mrs Moon tried to tell the judge that it was against her right to happiness and her right to equality if the court approved this restraining order they did not
Listen they approved it it it’s such an audacious thing to argue but worse than that chia’s Dad remembers while they were all in front of the judge Mrs Moon turned to look at Chia and she just had had this evil pure evil smile it was the kind of smile that he said was
Insinuating you really think that this is going to stop me think again chia’s Parents try to get Chi to change up her schedule you know don’t fall into a routine don’t be so predictable but she liked her routine she spent years crafting this routine to make sure that
She could maximize every single waking second of her day and to be the most productive human being alive at 6:00 a.m. she would quietly as possible close the front door behind her while it’s still dark out outside and she never brings her phone or her wallet she just
Runs to the local swimming pool indoor swimming pool swimming was kind of a necessary evil that she fell in love with prior to her daily morning swims she would wake up sit at her desk study all day lay down go to sleep repeat the next day and after a few years her back
Pain had gotten so bad she couldn’t even focus on studying they said the best therapy and treatment for back and waist pain from sitting is swimming so that’s why she chose swimming out of all sports so that she could strengthen her back so that she could study harder and as for
Why she left the house even before the sun came up I mean it was just the most optimal time in her schedule it was what she did every single morning like clockwork until she vanished the hunt for missing Chi started a few hours after she had vanished her parents wasted no time they
Rushed to the pool they started asking employees have you seen our daughter Chi and they said no she didn’t come in today which we thought was odd cuz she comes in every day like clockwork but actually now that you bring it up there was something odd a few days ago someone
Called us asking specifically for Chad which we thought was weird and now you’re saying that she’s missing because that’s very odd who calls an establishment to ask about a patron not even an owner or an employee a random guest they rush back to the apartment complex and asked the security guard
There if they had seen Chi since she left for the pool and they said no I haven’t but a few days ago something strange did happen and we didn’t mention it because we didn’t think it was a big deal but someone came asking a monk a monk came asking about CH specifically
Asking to see what time she went to school and came back even asking if she was home right now do you remember what else they look like no just a monk chia’s parents rushed to the police they told them everything the stalking the Mother-in-law the accusations of incest
The monk they said please you have to believe me my daughter is not the type of person to run away you have to listen to me the police did not they told them she’s an adult she probably got burnt out from school you’re probably putting
Way too much pressure on her to be an attorney so maybe I mean we’ve seen cases like this all the time you know the work pressure in South Korea the studying pressure it’s too Cutthroat kids snap students break nothing new here just wait a few days most of the
Time they come back Gia’s dad did not have the patience to wait he started passing out flyers in the neighborhood getting everyone in town involved he has the building manager of the apartment to give him the CCTV footage from that day this was the first big break in the case
He saw Chi walk out of the apartment out of view for her morning swim session and behind her you can make out the shadows of two men following her this should be enough to show the police that she’s being stocked right they didn’t initially believe him with the CCTV
Footage he said he had to convince the police officers to do their jobs he said do you know what it feels like to go buy chicken and beer for police officers that don’t want to do their jobs and you have to put a smile on your face and
Give them food and try to encourage them to work and care about your daughter chia’s dad did most of the work for them he asked around if anyone had seen Chi or the figures in the footage and the Milkman the milk delivery man he’s standing there staring at the poster and
He’s like whoa this is weird the dad’s like do you remember seeing her no not her but you know there was this suspicious looking van that was parked in front of your side of the building for a few days before she went missing and then you’re telling me that she went
Missing like that day I haven’t seen that van since this can’t be a coincidence right she his parents brought the Milkman into the police station as proof and you know look we’re not going crazy clearly weird things are happening suspicious things and the police said can you tell us about anyone
That was in the van or the license plate no so their way of investigating the case further was to hypnotize the Milkman they didn’t really get much helpful information out of this the Milkman just told them that he saw two men one was skinny and one had
Pimples that was it a little over a week after CH has disappear appearance her family got a call her body had been found in the mountains about 13 Mi away from where she lived her body had been placed in a large garbage bag her hands and feet were tied with string and her
Face had been taped up with duct tape one of her arms was broken in three places and she had been shot in the head six times four from the front of her face two to the back all close range So within about 4 to 8 in execution
Style this was all over the news in South Korea it’s it’s incredibly rare to have homicide victims that die of gunshot wounds because in Korea per 100 people2 people own guns that’s almost zero that’s almost nobody regular uniformed police officers don’t even have guns you have to be a detective or
High up on the police ladder in America to give you perspective per 100 people 120 own guns so I’m assuming that’s stating that the people who do own guns own multiple guns oh okay yeah immediately this case gets everyone’s attention for for that reason because of how rare gunshot wounds are but it’s
Quickly explained that she had passed from an airsoft gun instead of a traditional firearm so airsoft guns these are guns that use air pressure only to shoot out pellets so instead of like gunpowder it’s air pressure they’re way less dangerous than a regular gun so think somewhere in the line of BB guns
Pellet guns Airsoft guns they’re less dangerous but that close they can still be very fatal wow it’s suggested that Chia was shot up close so they wanted to make sure that the gun worked and actually killed her now this was going to be pretty easy for the police to find
Out who did it there it’s hard to get airsoft guns even on the black market in South Korea if you have an airsoft gun you have a license it’s for hunting purposes only it’s like a library in Korea you go to the police station and
You have to check in your own gun and they keep it and then you come in during hunting season and you can take it out for the day but you have to bring it back in when you’re done and they check it back in so when chia’s parents went
To ID her at the morg they said we’re going to get this person we’re going to track down this gun and we’re going to track down who did this to their daughter and they said that one of her eyes had fluttered open when she was in
The morg they felt it it was a sign that she was telling them I can’t rest until you get me Justice chia’s dad remembers leaning in and closing both of her eyes and Whispering close your eyes and rest leave the rest up to me and I will make
Sure that you receive Justice till my very last breath it was a very hard promise to make the perpetrators fled to Vietnam and then to China it took Interpol chia’s dad cooperation with International police officers even local Korean communities in these countries to track down the perpetrators chia’s dad
Kept getting calls every day telling him how someone had just spotted The Killers eating breakfast at a restaurant another caller said you know these suspicious Korean men that resembled the missing persons posters that you’re showing us because like I said it was very easy for the police to track down who owned the
Airsoft gun that killed Chi so they have the identity of these two men but they’re nowhere to be found they’re going to all these different countries asking around and it was just frustrating to constantly hear that they were just Out Of Reach by the time that authorities or chia’s dad himself would
Show up they were gone so they’re all over the place like different countries running yeah so even though there were 25 pis working on it only two of them would be Persons of Interest and suspects because they were the two that actually killed her the other ones they weren’t necessarily guilty all
Did this well they’re not private investigators they’re just like they’re Shady people got it they’re hired Hitmen basically MH it took a full year for the perpetrators to get arrested a full year once those two Hitmen of sorts were arrested they quickly gave up Mrs Moon
They’re like hey we have no interest in killing this random college student we clearly did it because we were getting paid by this woman Mrs Moon hired one of the best attorneys in town and Mrs moon was very cocky she looked the detectives in the eye and
Basically said so what I hired some piis to Stu her is that illegal I didn’t think so if you think it is fine arrest me for that but nothing else I didn’t kill her you have no proof and I’ll have you know that my husband is a very
Influential person once I get out we will remember this forever to who to the detectives oh now this is where it gets really strange Mrs Moon’s legal strategy was unhinged at first when people found out who she hired Chi’s dad along with the community was very concerned that they would never get the
Justice that they wanted these were top tier rankings at matchmaking companies this is the level of professionals we’re talking about top tier big Law Firm attorneys in the whole nation they had power they had connections they were willing to play dirty they had resources chia’s dad was so convinced that the
Attorneys because you know in Korea there is saying that money buys Freedom you know I’m sure it exists in the US and everywhere in this world the more money you have the easier it might be to evade the justice system evade consequences so chia’s Dad he said that
He started practicing he wanted to prepare himself for the sentence to be read out as non-guilty and that she would get no time so he would stand on the furthest side of his living room grab pens and Chopsticks fling them at the the wall 12 ft away and he was
Trying to fling it so hard it would penetrate deeply enough into the wall that if it were a human brain it would kill the person he thought the attorneys are going to get her that not guilty verdict so I’m going to kill her on the spot with a ballpoint pen through the
Eye he didn’t care if he had to go to jail for the rest of his life to do it this is what he had to do but every day in court he started rethinking his strategy it was just odd Mrs moon was putting on a scene she was yelling at
Her attorneys in front of everyone she was yelling at the judge presiding over the case she was provoking the prosecutors pissing them off hurling insults at them which she that is in lawyer world you don’t do that even if you think the prosecutors are dumb you
Are the defense you do not make it known that you think they’re dumb that’s not going to help you get a plea deal that’s not going to help you get less time just she’s just that cocky yes she would speak out of turn in the courtroom which
Is a big no no she would smirk and say things like your honor that guy over there he’s writing novels fiction stories it’s lies she was sitting there smirking the whole time it felt like watching a bad movie of like a super villain Trope lawyers who were fascinated by the case commented that
They had no idea what was going on in that courtroom it was puzzling like top attorneys would drop the ball this hard you had to wonder if there was an ulterior motive Mrs Moon’s attorneys would put her up on the stand and ask her questions about the crime and her
Quote not involvement but they would ask her questions that would get her riled up it’s like they were poking the bear she would have these big emotional outbursts in court which just made her look unhinged unhinged enough to kill her family M I have a question yes at
The beginning of the story you mentioned that the husband tried to save 22k yes and this is how this whole case evolved I where yes so basically Madame de had planted all the seeds with the Anonymous phone calls with Mrs Moon saying that hun was cheating and planted
The seed planted the seed and then walked away now had would this murder have happened without Madame de planting the seed we don’t know how do we know that she planted the seats we know that she sent Anonymous phone calls to break them up so Madame dude did not get paid
$22,000 by the groom site and she thought that Mrs moon was heavily involved I’m sure she could pick up the signs this is an overly emotional overly involved mother she’s the one that facilitated this marriage so she had someone call with caller ID to Mrs Moon and say hey your son-in-law is cheating
Your son-in-law is cheating and I think the intention on Madame de’s side was just to get them to break up or just even cause some discomfort in the family because she felt like she was wronged so why should they all live happily ever after mhm she started the phone calls
Eventually stopped calling because they moved on but Mrs moon was like a dog barking up a tree I don’t know if she would have gotten to the same conclusion without those Anonymous phone calls I don’t know if it only accelerated or egged her on or if things would have
Played out differently we have no idea but in court Mrs Moon had no respect for the court she just had this smug confidence that you just honestly wanted to smack off her face no offense and there’s a speculation of why the attorneys failed Mrs Moon’s legal
Defense so badly can you guess why what why the attorneys would drop the ball so badly to the point where not even Top Dog attorneys are looking at this like why are they doing that the attorneys are almost poking the bear they’re almost making her look worse right so that’s a strategy right
Make her seem a little crazy or is it because they’re getting paid not by Mrs moon but by Mr Moon he was the one footing the bill technically they’re his lawyers and it’s likely that he wanted to get rid of his crazy murderous wife who would probably come for his alleged
Mistress next wait this is a theory right a theory alleged but is thewy paid by the husband or the wife it seems like paid by the husband so even though technically they’re married and it’s hard to argue which bank account if they’re even separate he’s the one with the power and
Influence he’s the one that they’ll probably continue to do business with that’s crazy that’s a very popular Theory I mean I think it’s like the main Theory because people just could not understand why these Top Dog attorneys are doing this it was that bizarre of behavior that not even a single attorney
Watching it could be like oh maybe they’re doing some Advanced strategy here it was just odd during the trial the hitman’s testimonies were used against Mrs Moon one of them was her nephew yeah one of them was her nephew that was employed as her chauffeur I
Guess she’s fond of the idea of keeping everything in the family even murder and the other man was a lone shark that her nephew introduced her to they said that Mrs Moon just kept pressuring them ordering them following her is not enough okay just get rid of her now they
Tried to calm her down cuz they were scared they said you know we can’t just go around killing a college student how suspicious would that be she has no enemies the whole town would freak out the whole nation would freak out she’s a lost student at a prestigious College
Can you imagine the fear the outrage if she just vanishes and dies they try to suggest a different idea what if we do something that will get her out of the picture without directly targeting her what would make her cut off the affair with her cousin maybe something
Traumatic needs to happen maybe her dad needs to die Gia’s dad remembers a new potential business partner entering into his life around that time he in uced himself as an investor who had businesses worth $4 million and that he was looking into partnering with new people he said that anything that you’re
Interested in we can check it out chia’s dad said it didn’t feel like a scam or anything but it just it was weird there was something odd about him every business opportunity required a ton of travel is always hey there’s a new clothing warehouse in Inon that’s hours
And hours away like do you want to come and check it out with me the tuna business is going really well we should fly to Japan to check it out I have a new idea but the manufacturers are in China do you want to go and check it
Out chia’s dad never went with him and thus they never had the opportunity to kill him that’s when they decided let’s just kill Chi to get it over with because they said it felt like Mrs Moon would stop at nothing chia’s dad would later say that he feels very guilty he
Even cried to the judge and said your honor if only I could I would gladly give up my life just to make sure that these monsters lose theirs now he said that Chia was the reason their family was so close anytime family members would get frustrated or upset
With each other or start fighting Chia would sit them down and try to get each other to see everybody’s side and by the end of that conversation it was very hard for them to still be upset she was the person that reminded everyone even when emotions were high that they’re all
On the same side we’re all on the same team we just all want the best for the family Chia would take breaks from studying to knock on her parents door and she would sit on the edge of the bed and massage her mom’s feet and tell her about what she’s been
Reading then she would hop up and finish her nightly routine where she would grab these probiotic drinks for everyone in the family she would go room by room handing them out and her dad says he remembers his very last words to her were thanks honey leave it on the table
For me he said if he had known that that would be the last time he saw his daughter he would have looked at her longer memorized every little detail on her face but now she’s gone and Mrs moon is sitting in front of the judge screaming about how unjust this whole situation is
He had to listen to her and the perpetrators go in depth about how they stalked Chia that morning how it was so inconvenient that there was an old lady selling yogurt on the street they had to wait for her to pass they described in great detail how Chia told them that her
Parents could pay a ransom of $700,000 but they didn’t care even though technically this is more money than what Mrs moon was offering them they felt like tiia would probably either a get them arrested or B even if they took the money Mrs moon is so powerful she’d probably have them killed
They took her out to the mountains pointed a gun to her head forced her to kneel down tied her up taped up her head and then they oddly started hauling her up the mountain or at least they attempted to but they kept dropping her it’s suspected that this is where she
Broke her arm in three places they kept dropping her really hard eventually they gave up dropped her on the ground and shot her in the head six times they rushed to a local pay phone dialed Mrs Moon and stated quote the product has been sold that was their code for she has been
Killed they went and grabbed breakfast yeah cuz I guess they can stomach food right now and then had straight to the inton airport to flee to Vietnam in the end Mrs moon and the two hit men that carried out the murder received life imprisonment Mrs Moon would be locked
Away so that she could never hurt another Soul again until 2 years later she’s basically free what Mrs moon was released under a suspended sentence because of health reasons she wasn’t technically free but she was hospitalized instead of being in a jail and for whatever reason the hospital
That was treating her they treated her like any other patient she would be in and out as she pleased sometimes is not even coming back to the hospital to sleep at night this all despite the fact that she only got this suspended sentence status because she and her
Doctors claimed that being in prison would be forfeiting her life because of how bad her health was so if it’s that bad she should just be bed bound needing Round the Clock care no yeah Gia’s dad did some investigating first Mrs moon is living it up in an expensive VIP suite
At the hospital even non- murderers non-criminals they never get to see rooms like this in hospitals this is for the upper Elites only chia’s dad somehow tracked down her medical records and it stated a whole list of Health complications and reasons she had breast cancer in her left breast Parkinson’s
Syndrome severe diabetes asthma depression insomnia cataracts which fine it does sound serious but she his dad took this full medical report gave it to a panel of independent doctors who have nothing to do with him nothing to do with Mrs Moon nothing to do with the
Case and asked them if any of this makes sense they said something’s odd first of all Mrs moon was diagnosed with Stage 1 breast cancer years ago she had undergone chemo and took the appropriate medical steps to eliminate the cancer and according to the charts she’s technically cancer-free now just because
You’ve had cancer once in your life does not mean that you can never be in prison or else you’ll die with Parkinson’s if you guys know anybody who had Parkinson’s my grandfather had it it’s an incurable disease that I mean it just makes existing very difficult it’s hard
To sit up get up walk even eat it’s incredibly noticeable especially when it gets to the point of being bad it’s not something that you can easily hide from people if that makes sense but on Mrs Moon’s charts it literally reads the current evidence of Parkinson’s disease is insufficient the patient is stating
She has Parkinson’s the patient is strongly hoping to maintain her current medication for it the reason that I bring up the fact that it’s very obvious to see if someone has Parkinson’s typically is the medical chart also notes that she eats and chews well so does she have Parkinson’s does she not
They’re diagnosing her with Parkinson’s but there’s no evidence Ence to back up that she has Parkinson’s and then they wrote she can’t be in prison because she has Parkinson’s and needs full caregiving assistance at another Point her medical records read that Mrs Moon cannot eat without the help of an
Assistant but then somewhere else in the medical record they’re like she’s eating well why is she being L out the hospital like what’s going on as for diabetes she’s fine she does not need administration of insulin her asthma the medical records even State it’s more like coughing fits not necessarily
Asthma as for the cataracts portion she did have surgery in one eye and is considered have normal pressure and stable condition in both eyes now and this is the wild part but the medical records heavily emphasized her depression as if that’s a reason to be out of jail I’m sorry but jail really
Isn’t a fun happy place you know you killed someone I would imagine it’s not going to be like sunshine and Rainbows in there in her medical charts there’s a quote from Mrs moter psychiatrist which by the way just to preface I’m not saying that prisons should not be
Reformed I think that there’s a lot that we can do for the mental health of prisoners so that we can rehabilitate at them you know she did not have severe depression she had like moderate depression and just listen to what she says to her psychiatrist she said and
This is in the medical chart I ordered the girl to be followed I never ordered her to be killed and I still got a life sentence after this I have no hope in the system or people anymore I was so shocked I developed severe depression it’s so unfair that I’ve been sentenced
To life I just want to die I just want to be treated in a stable environment and recover my health and you know this is just this is wrong the psychiatrist wrote down at the age of 67 and an inherently weak Constitution the stress of the life imprisoner ought to directly affect the
Shortening of a patient’s life so I believe the patient cannot handle imprisonment all the other doctors who reviewed her patient charts anonymously they all unanimously stated it just doesn’t make sense when reporters tried to track down the doctors who diagnosed Mrs moon with all these different ailments and conditions they were
Threatened these doctors just straight up said yeah I’m going to sue you I’m going to sue you for talking to me mhm but if you follow the money you get a sense of why Mrs Moon wanted to be at this specific hospital because she requested this Hospital the hospital was
Exposed for some really really shady stuff that’s crazy that she can request hospital she can request this like she can do whatever it’s actually a a big conversation in Korea so it’s kind of the opposite here the conversation is usually prison conditions are so deplorable right uhhuh in Korea people
Are like wow the prison conditions most most of them live better like they’re living better than most citizens they’re getting nutritious free meals three times a day you know that’s interesting that’s the conversation wow I mean they’re of course is prison reform conversations but this is a conversation
That I see popping up more frequently amongst like General Kens wow again not to say that there is no abuse or deplorable things happening in Korean prisons but the viral picture of prison food that went crazy on the internet food was good in Korea yeah they’re like
This is so unfair like we don’t even get access to this type of nutritious meals I just think the fact that she can request hospital is something else yeah she requested I think there were 28 other hospitals closer to the prison but she requested this one specifically yeah
This hospital they had a process of making money that didn’t involve treating people they would go out and start building rapport with the local unhoused population they would buy them meals cigarettes and ask about their families and then one day casually as if this was just a new idea that popped
Into the nurse’s heads hey you know you could get money from the government if you’re a patient at our Hospital right they would lure them into the hospital lead them to a windowless room called the stable room they were thrown onto a bed and their arms and feet were tied up
Towards the ceiling so they’re able to lay on their back but all their limbs are raised above their chest they would keep them like this for a full week because this position all the blood is pumping towards the chest and it puts a lot of strain on the heart so after a
Week of this what do you know they do some scans and the person’s heart is weak it’s not looking too good it looks like they have a heart condition they need to be kept in the hospital longer and because they’re unhoused the government must pay for it straight into the hospital’s
Pockets hundreds of people were hospitalized like this just based off this torture room tactic they were earning like seven figures a year the hospital from the government that is crazy people died from this and no this is not like a huge thing that people talk about because it was a huge
Thing after it was exposed people didn’t know because they would Target unhoused populations and they would specifically ask if they had family and if they didn’t that’s when they were brought in so with no family around they’re vulnerable already people didn’t even notice that they were missing everything was just swept under
The rug but now the hospital was shut down and Mrs moon was thrown back into prison where she made several complaints she stated she argued with her two cellmates too much they didn’t see eye to eye she felt like it would be best for her if she didn’t have to coexist
With others she said I don’t think we are the same level of humans my cellmates and I but I treat them with sympathy please stop putting people who worked in the industry in my room she demanded a private room she stated because of a herniated cervical disc she
Would unfortunately not you know with a heavy heart not be able to participate in the cleaning or laundry of her cell that was required by all inmates anytime she came down with a tiny little cough or flu she demanded to have a full body scan done quote from the tip of her toes
To the top of her head all on tax Paradigm she kept rejecting food that was given to her because it quote had a weird smell she stated she could not drink water from plastic cups since she was a cancer patient and plastic cups had endocrine disrupting chemicals she also requested only drinking vitamin
Fused mineral water she also wrote here they don’t have the bed that props you up like they do in the hospitals there’s no humidifier so it’s very hard for me I think I need to go to the hospital for a month please report this to the head
Office she acted like she was a guest at the Four Seasons and not in prison for murder Oh ultimately the case did result in a lot of divorces Mr Moon ended up divorcing his wife while she was in prison the moon daughter and the judge H they got a divorce and even chia’s parents broke up after chia’s murder they were just coping differently chia’s
Dad had thrown himself into the case trying to catch the perpetrators trying to make them go down for the murder but once it was all over the stress hit him like a brick he started developing PTSD he couldn’t be outside near strangers he had this high-pitched buzzing in his ear
That would give him a severe headache like a radio frequency but it would never go away his doctors told him that it was a cause of severe stress there was nothing they could do he tried to bond with his wife but at the same time chia’s mom she was so miserable all she
Did was numb the pain by drinking all day and she would excitedly talk about Chia as if Chia was still alive she only ever talked about her in the present tense and that was really hard for chia’s Dad chia’s room and things were kept exactly the same even 11 years
After the murder chia’s mom was hoarding anything and everything that once belonged to her even tissues for her it was comforting for chia’s Dad it was terrifying to open the door and see chia’s room exactly the way she left it when she went out for a swim they had
Even moved after chia’s passing so chia’s Mom was intentionally setting up the room like this to her this is how she would remember her daughter ultimately she ended up passing away 13 years later in a letter Tia’s mom wrote I want to touch your pretty face tiia I want to
Feed you tasty things I want to buy you pretty clothes but why is it that even in my dreams you do not appear I miss you so much Mom is having a hard time chia’s mom is said to have died of a broken heart and starving she had completely lost her appetite after
Losing her daughter and survived mainly on alcohol she was 83 lbs when she passed now chia’s dad has been diagnosed with cancer but he said it’s a relief he said I wasn’t able to protect my wife nor my daughter so this is my punishment and in some way it feels
Relieving tiia once wrote a poem for her mom and it read mother there is love at your fingertips I’m only part of you who got life from the spirit of those fingertips mother I miss your arms like this as a tree trunk that has grown
Thick in your arms for a long time the star in the sky shine a exceptionally brightly looking at me as if they know your heart and it ends with om which is mother mother and that is the story of chi what are your thoughts on this case
I mean it was just I genuinely I mean it’s so terrifying I think cases like this it’s Stranger Than Fiction that’s what a lot of people will say to I guess real life happenings that unfold in this kind of bizarre unhinged manner but I think it’s terrifying to know that there
Are such unhinged unreasonable unpredictable people out there that are filled with so much evil they’re not even filled with good so you just never know what they’re thinking or trying to do to others so please stay safe and I will see you guys on Sunday for the minod bye
28 Comments
The matchmaker you mentioned are phycologists. Does that include hypnotherapy? Wondering how many phone calls the mother inlaw received. Matchmaker wanted vengeance didnt she. Groom did get a divorce. Seems like the only partie getting exactly what they wanted was the matchmaker. Match maker knew every detail of both families
She's the most pick me ahjumma
Imagine being this loved by your father 😔
Wondered where the daughter of this insane person is the whole time. She can't be unaware of what her Mom was doing.
I’m in the last tier I’m shamed lol
i am convinced that south korea is the modern day north korea
An airsoft gun wouldn't do that… an AIRGUN would though
Just wanted to say-please don’t apologize for the all of the cultural background knowledge that you explain in cases like these!! That’s part of the reason why your channel is so unique and informative
❤😢😢😮❤😊
42:36 those are airgun and not airsoft gun, thats incorrect info in this video
This poor lovely student was a victim of a lot of peoples nasty little vendettas against other people. So tragic and cruel. Its a great idea that hubby paid for great lawyers but then had them throw the case. But the preferential treatment to get her out of actually doing much prison time is really depressing. I feel so badly for chia's family.
What happened to the son in law?? If only he had confronted the MIL this all could have been avoided. Even if he was cheating he could have said no not with my cousin.. the girls dad should have confronted the cousin & his parents to clear the air.. the police are just despicable..
In short , she used the victim as a surrogate for her husband’s mistress.
Is it even viable for someone outside of korea to even be sued in the first place? Especially considering they are in the states? Edit: I mean not many would entertain accusations of incest directed towards them, and would dismiss those claims as ludicrous.
A clear example of how the 1% make use of their money. Here, eat some time.
Girl had more eyes on her than the Queen.
cannot believe the ms moon is getting special attention, but it's not her fault, its the people who makes her feel that way
Talk about a meddling in-law
This case was devastatingly heartbreaking. I hope the daughter and her family find peace.
The cultural background is key keep it coming.
all of this was terribly sad and preventable, but i’m honestly wondering what the hell the actual daughter of the murderer was thinking/feeling.
What a beautiful beautiful masterpiece of a poem….only an exceptional soul could write like that…..RIP 🙁
This is so incredibly unfair, this whole case just broke my heart… My brain can't even process how such deranged people exist and live happy lives while ruining others'.
A diligent, hard-working, gold-hearted student did their best all the time, in order to be able to defend the least privileged people in court, she had a mission and she was giving it her all to complete it, and yet, a narcissistic and evil woman took her life just like that, with a snap of a finger. It's scary, because in her place, it could have been anyone else. Even though I usually support reforming criminals, I believe there should be some serious change of the prosecution system and cases like this one should be looked at individually, on a separate level, because of how uncalled for and random the whole murder was, the victim didn't do anything to deserve such a thing, meaning it very well could happen again if the criminal got the tiniest chance to go back to their previous life. So, no, I don't agree with allowing her to visit the hospital for more than a day, her staying there gives her so many advantages she does not deserve, I cannot even call her human.
This is shocking!!!!!
Jesus, that hospital is insane to me. To purposefully make people sick?? I’m astounded
Imagine hiring P. I to stalk another group of P. I 😂😂😂
Years ago there used to be match making services here in the U.S. i remember seeing commercials for them when i was a kid and im 48.
Ha Ji-hye, then a student at Ewha Womans University. Yun Kil-ja, wife of YoungNam Flour Mills CEO Ryu Won-ki
Matchmakers with degree in Psychology would not make any of these tiers. Bottom-tier but they are rankers? How ironic.